The Purpose of Narcissists

We are constantly confronted with people and situations that will teach us something new about ourselves. Whether this be an interaction with someone who makes you clench your jaw, or maybe you have been accused of being a narcissist. Either way, we are all on a unique journey through life, and the idea is to learn from our experiences.

When it comes to narcissists, there is no surprise from anyone when you mention the level of anger they make you feel. You might get an agreeable eye-roll now and then from someone who knows your struggles. Narcissistic people can be the most infuriating, and it’s usually because they are oblivious to the repercussions of their actions. They choose to rather shift the blame onto someone else – usually someone they are quite close to.

Although interacting with a narcissist can be challenging and emotionally draining, it can also be a great opportunity for personal growth. Narcissists have a way of pushing your boundaries and forcing you to recognize what you do and do not want in your life. Through your interactions with them, you can learn more about your own values and beliefs, as well as what you’re willing to tolerate in relationships. This can help you become more assertive about who to let into your life.

Narcissists are often easy to identify. They tend to dismiss other people’s feelings and criticize their efforts. Moreover, they are preoccupied with their own needs and desires and barely take note of anything else. 

Many people struggle to be open and expressive around them without fear of being belittled or judged. In a sense, narcissists can act as a test for your relationships, helping you get rid of the toxic people who don’t respect your boundaries. Furthermore, they help you realize the people who contribute positively to your life, and those that are only holding you back. While it’s never easy to deal with a narcissist, the lessons they teach us about ourselves, our boundaries, and our relationships can be massively beneficial in the long run.

This is their purpose in life. Just as you need them to learn about yourself and grow further into your greatest potential, they need us to realize the errors in their ways. The more comfortable you become with yourself and expressing your boundaries, the more they learn that crossing certain lines is ill-advised.

We Manifest Narcissists, Whether We Realize It or Not

As Julia Cannon says, we are the creators of our reality and therefore we manifest a lot in our lives, even if we aren’t aware we’re doing so. The more you focus on something, even if you do not like it, the more your world is going to revolve around that aspect. Take the news for example. Yes, it might be extremely informative on what’s happening in the world but it is truly a dreary state of mind to be in. Ideally, we should be aware of the current state of affairs, but we do not need to become consumed by it. The same goes for narcissists, we do not need to be consumed by them either.

At the same time, the world is a mirror image, and so are each of our interactions. This isn’t to say that we are all the same people. But instead, the interactions we have with others will mirror the parts of ourselves that we need to work on. So, without even realizing it, a narcissist will stumble into your life and wreak havoc until you recognize the lesson behind their misguided intentions.

How To Deal With Narcissists

Learning how to set your boundaries can be easier said than done for many people. This is made even trickier when emotions are added into the mix. Let’s say you’re in a relationship with a narcissistic person. You adore them for their charming ways, which is what attracted you to them in the first place. However, they make you feel like less of a person a lot of the time. It’s important to take stock of how much you feel free to express. Are you able to speak your truth? Or, do you find yourself sitting in silence just to keep the piece? If you are only receiving degrading comments from your partner, it is a sign to pull yourself away from them.

You might battle with this for a while, and that’s okay! Remember, it’s all part of the journey you’re on. However, keep in mind that there is no point in trying to change a narcissist. They are on their own journey and change can only come from within. They need to be the ones to realize their mistakes and only they have the power to change themselves. It is not your responsibility to change anyone but yourself. So, when dealing with a narcissist, your best solution is to walk away the moment you can.

Learning to deal with a narcissist can be a long and tiring journey. But, it all starts with awareness. So, you will need to ascertain whether or not your partner is a narcissist or not. Here is a quiz that might help you find the answer you are looking for.

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Healing with QHHT

Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique is one of the most aught healing phenomena in the spiritual world. Dolores Cannon is the woman who discovered it, along with her husband, Johnny cannon. Both have since passed away, but we continue to learn through the legacy they have left behind. Dolores’s work is being continued through her daughter, Julia Cannon, who has followed in her mother’s footsteps. Dolores got to a point with her work that she could tell who was communicating with her through her clients. Either the over soul or the E.Ts. According to her, they all spoke in different ways. Moreover, she had the same experience with each and every client. Depending on who contacted her, they would have the same mannerisms and the same sort of message. 

People from all around the world would travel to see Dolores, and now her daughter, Julia Cannon. Each of these people sought healing of some sort. Dolores would place them under hypnosis and this is where the beings would contact her. The conscious mind was at rest, making this possible. One thing that sets Dolores’s QHHT methods aside, is that she takes her clients through past life-death experiences. Many other hypnotherapists do not like doing that, as if they are tempting fate. They fear something bad might happen. However, according to Dolores, taking someone through the death experience might explain some problems they have in this life. Be it anxiety, fears, or any other negative feeling or behavior. 

No Judgment

After their death experience, they go to the place we go between lives. Some people like to call this the Source. The interesting this was, that every single client described this place the same way. When you first get there, a sort of preview of the life you just lived flashes through your mind. This might explain how people who have had near-death experiences say their life flashes before their eyes. You are surrounded by many other beings. Elders, spirit guides, and other members of your soul family. There are counsels oriented specifically to help you integrate all the lessons you learned.

This is where everyone can take a deep breath and relax. This is not where your sins get laid out in front of you, and judgment is passed. According to Dolores, “There is never any condemnation.” You will not be judged for your actions, because we are here to have these experiences after all. The good, and the bad. This does not mean you get a free pass to do whatever you want. Our mission in life is to raise our vibrations and awareness of ourselves and others. 

It’s all about perspective

The next part is crucial. Because it really puts things into perspective for you. When you have just passed away, and you are busy dissecting your experiences from the life you just lived in order to understand it. The higher beings, or counsel, present each interaction from the other person’s viewpoint. Sometimes this can be hard because you suddenly realize how you hurt that person, or why they reacted in such a way. It may have seemed trivial to you at the moment, but now you are seeing it from their perspective and a lot of the time, they had the opposite experience. You just couldn’t see it. The point of this is not to berate you and make you feel guilty. It is simply to show you the bigger picture, so you may learn a larger lesson.

We are all familiar with the term “karma.” well, this is where it really shines. When you are in the middle of your life you do not realize how you are hurting people. But, from the other side, you see it from both sides. There is no God who sits on a throne and judges you, that is all up to you. Only you can determine. This is also where all the souls who were a part of that life talk about how they dealt with situations. You might come to an understanding you need to try again, but switch roles this time. So, the father becomes the son, and the son becomes a father. Or, you could take on completely different roles. Like best siblings being lovers in past lives.

Each life is an experience just as important as the last, as each lesson contributes towards a much grander scheme. The universe has a lot in store for us, and we are only just tipping off the tip of the iceberg.

Dimensions explained

Let’s begin with a brief explanation of dimensions. The concept is thought so confusing that many people just ignore the idea completely. The science of today is still grappling with the idea of multiple dimensions, while the world of QHHT has been able to connect with and understand the higher dimensions in detail. What exactly is a dimension? To explain this, let’s start from the bottom and work our way up. 

One dimension, or something one-dimensional, will go from one point to another, usually in a straight line. This is how we see length or distance. Adding another dimension onto that makes it two-dimensional. This adds a width, creating a surface area, or open space. Then, we get depth, which occurs in the third dimension. Time is not something we can see with our eyes, but rather something we perceive. We remember things from our past, and we predict future events according to expectations. We can also see the effect that time has on the world we live in through the seasons changing, or how a river changes shape over the years as it flows through the land. So, you see the four dimensions that our human minds can comprehend at this moment in time.

The fifth dimension 

Things then take a turn for the mysterious when we take the fifth dimension into account. As a consciousness, we are trying to grapple with the idea of the fifth dimension, which is new to us in terms of our evolution. If you listen to someone speaking, where does their voice resonate from? does it come from the length of the first dimension, or the width of the second? Does it come from the depth of the third? Or, possibly the illusion of time? The answer is none of the above. 

A person’s voice is a sound, and a sound is a vibration or frequency. Frequencies are not restricted t the four dimensions. Instead, they transcend length, width, depth, time, and space, which is where the fifth dimension comes into play. The fifth dimension doesn’t have physical characteristics that we humans tend to gravitate towards. By this, we mean appearances and behaviors. In the fifth dimension, energy has so many more shapes, vibrations, and behaviors. There are literally endless options for this type of energy to transform into. This is what we discuss within the QHHT courses. 

During a QHHT session, energy will come to you in all sorts of forms, and it will display all kinds of characteristics. This is how we have seen snippets into the lives of extraterrestrials, or beings of light. Then again, your higher self is also from a different dimension. Our being is multi-faceted in the way that our lowest form is the ego, being who you are as a physical person. Then, you get your higher self. But, this can go on infinitely, as we are all connected to the over-soul. What comes next is the part of you that is connected with others, like your loved ones. Imagine it like a family tree connecting all of us. 

Consciousness is something we are so limited in understanding. There are still people on Earth who believe we are the only conscious beings within the universe. That is their journey and chosen experience for this life. However, if it interests you, there is so much more consciousness within the universe. It all comes down to which dimension you are perceiving it from. Earth itself has its consciousness, which is made up collectively of our consciousness. Stars have their consciousness, even the dust that is left over when they implode.

The simultaneity of our existence

We started this article by saying that some people feel the higher dimensions are something separate from themselves. However, that could not be further from the truth. Your consciousness is only but a small fragment that makes part of a much larger grand plan. We are here to experience and report back on what we have learned along the way. We are living simultaneous lives within the other dimensions at the same time. So, you could have been your mother in an alternate dimension, or you might have another life as an entirely different species somewhere out there in the universe.

QHHT is an amazing tool that we can use to discover what is going on with us energetically. So, this means that if something big is happening in one of your other lives, QHHT can help you find out what it is. The time we are living, here on earth, is truly phenomenal. A huge shift has happened, and we are now at a point where we are consciously choosing to be aware of what is happening to us and the world around us energetically.

For the moment, we are aware of the higher beings from higher dimensions. QHHT is a part of the process which enabled this. The next step in our consciousness expansion is being able to see them. Eventually, we will be able to interact with them.